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I find it weird that Bear Groups that post pics of people they attracted to, never post Black, Brown, and Asian folks.

Hmmmm. #Bears #GayBears
I got plenty of pics... I could flood them, but I'd need to probably open a lewd account first ๐Ÿ˜„
@jec haha itโ€™s just like the Eurocentric beauty standards are so oppressive in these groups.
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Here's one. Just a teaser
Even such fine ones like those?

But now, seriously, if you mean your instance rules, I'm not really on there...
We need to decolonize gay beauty
@taur10 @jec I know and Iโ€™m perfectly on with where I am now.
A very good question! Here is one of the most beautiful faces I have ever seen. Iโ€™ll start the process.
@jec this is a whole new world on here. Things change slowly but maybe we can help things along. Thereโ€™s always been divisiveness in the gay community, but perhaps things can change for the better. When I first came out I remember many guys who did not want to be in a social space with women. Iโ€™m sure a lot still feel that way, but I think things are improving. Baby steps. :gunter_dance:
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This really isn't so hard @Georgia Dude

it's not "divisiveness", it starts with an R and ends with an M, and I'm not talking about a rim

fuck baby steps tbh
@jec I hear you! But in todayโ€™s environment where 1/2 of the media is screaming hate re: immigrants, African-Americans, LGBTQ IA+, pro-choice, Muslims, Jews, Hispanics, & any POC that are not listed already, that donโ€™t look like WASPs or WRCs, we have to be bold but careful. There are lots of guns & hateful people out there, egged on by the likes of Carlson & Hannity. We donโ€™t want outright civil war, and need civil discourse. But iron fist/velvet glove!
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@Georgia Dude the post was never really about nutjob gunmen, but about beauty standards in the gay community... let's not move the goalposts this radically, please. also naively dividing this stuff into a binary between frothing at the mouth lunatics and then everyone else, really erases and handwaves away a lot of real issues that are still important and need to be dealt with... no one is above learning and growing and self-reflection

sorry @Jesse๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿด๐Ÿป this might be getting out of hand, let me know if you'd prefer for me to drop it
I know, right?
@liroso โ€œBut the flag symbolizesโ€

Yeah, no lol

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